So I am here again with a serious like thing.
Bullying.
This is one of the subject that I probably have most things to say a lot,and I tend to be articulate about because I know how bad this can be,since I've felt it on my own skin several times,and the thing I hear a lot is that not everyone is as strong as me and able to stand up and not give a fuck about stuff anymore.This was one of the reasons why growing up I really learnt not to care about things and just stand back and mind my own business,and only consume energy on things and people I like or believe deserve any of my time and energy.
But,as I said,many people can't really deal with this,and it literally makes my hurt heart how much people can suffer because of how much trash certain humans are.There are people self harming,needing counseling,or even commiting suicide because of some douches being their pathetic selves and acting badly towards others,picking on them,only to boost their stupid ego and make up for how pathetic their own lives are.
It is really hard to be able to open up and look for help.It can be really hard to get up and learn how to stand up for yourself or even find someone that understands,because it's one of those things you can't really understand unless you've been through this.
It is really helpful to actually be surrounded by nice,helpful and understanding people,but being around the wrong sort of persons can really make a serious difference in someone's life.I hate to see people genuinely being morons in thoughts and personality.I can't explain it.I don't care what you look like, how you dress,where you come from or anything like that as long as you are nice to me and act like an actual human being.
There are little things that can help you.First,you should just find something that you care about and that helps you keep on track.This should at least help you get through the day and get your mind off things.And I really suggest just getting Demi Lovato's book.It sounds like I just talk too much about this book,but it really made such a big difference for me.Since I got this,I just,I don't know,it feels like forever since I had a serious breadown.I admit that I just have days when I cry and feel like hell and am sick of everything,but seriously,I actually cried my way out of a party last year and spent 3 days eating only nutella straight from the jar and not getting out of my bed.
When I was little I used to get so so mad about what kids would say about me,and I was always the super nerdy like kid,I sucked at sports and did quite a lot of Maths,and I used to get picked on a lot,there were SO many days I would go to school crying or come home begging not to be sent back there.It's tragic to believe that even as little kids we teach our future generations to be so mean towards others and think that "Ohh,they're just kids,that's something normal." until they actually become teenagers and it happens a lot to actually freaking kill themselves or cut or take pills or run away from home because of how crap people are.
You can be bullied at school,you can be bullied online,and you can be bullied by your own family.It's all the same.And the solution is.Either metaphorically or irl,BLOCK that person,send all the drama and negativity away of your life.You don't need anybody to treat you badly,because YOU are beautiful,and smart, and lovely,and make a difference in this world and matter more than you actually realise.Never let anyone tell you any different.
Love always,
Me.
Bullying.
This is one of the subject that I probably have most things to say a lot,and I tend to be articulate about because I know how bad this can be,since I've felt it on my own skin several times,and the thing I hear a lot is that not everyone is as strong as me and able to stand up and not give a fuck about stuff anymore.This was one of the reasons why growing up I really learnt not to care about things and just stand back and mind my own business,and only consume energy on things and people I like or believe deserve any of my time and energy.
But,as I said,many people can't really deal with this,and it literally makes my hurt heart how much people can suffer because of how much trash certain humans are.There are people self harming,needing counseling,or even commiting suicide because of some douches being their pathetic selves and acting badly towards others,picking on them,only to boost their stupid ego and make up for how pathetic their own lives are.
It is really hard to be able to open up and look for help.It can be really hard to get up and learn how to stand up for yourself or even find someone that understands,because it's one of those things you can't really understand unless you've been through this.
It is really helpful to actually be surrounded by nice,helpful and understanding people,but being around the wrong sort of persons can really make a serious difference in someone's life.I hate to see people genuinely being morons in thoughts and personality.I can't explain it.I don't care what you look like, how you dress,where you come from or anything like that as long as you are nice to me and act like an actual human being.
There are little things that can help you.First,you should just find something that you care about and that helps you keep on track.This should at least help you get through the day and get your mind off things.And I really suggest just getting Demi Lovato's book.It sounds like I just talk too much about this book,but it really made such a big difference for me.Since I got this,I just,I don't know,it feels like forever since I had a serious breadown.I admit that I just have days when I cry and feel like hell and am sick of everything,but seriously,I actually cried my way out of a party last year and spent 3 days eating only nutella straight from the jar and not getting out of my bed.
When I was little I used to get so so mad about what kids would say about me,and I was always the super nerdy like kid,I sucked at sports and did quite a lot of Maths,and I used to get picked on a lot,there were SO many days I would go to school crying or come home begging not to be sent back there.It's tragic to believe that even as little kids we teach our future generations to be so mean towards others and think that "Ohh,they're just kids,that's something normal." until they actually become teenagers and it happens a lot to actually freaking kill themselves or cut or take pills or run away from home because of how crap people are.
You can be bullied at school,you can be bullied online,and you can be bullied by your own family.It's all the same.And the solution is.Either metaphorically or irl,BLOCK that person,send all the drama and negativity away of your life.You don't need anybody to treat you badly,because YOU are beautiful,and smart, and lovely,and make a difference in this world and matter more than you actually realise.Never let anyone tell you any different.
Love always,
Me.
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